How Did We Get Engaged?
The day of our engagement caught us both by surprise. Though we had discussed the idea of marriage before, I had not made any specific plans or preparations before it happened. We were on a vacation to Olympic National Park in Washington State as part of a visit to see Lindsey's brother Carl graduate from college. On our fourth day into the trip, we decided to hike to a remote mountain pool called Deer Lake. We thought it would be a two hour hike round-trip, but after three hours of hiking we had not yet made it to the top. As the snow became deep and eventually turned into glaciers, Lindsey became skeptical that we would ever find the end.
For reasons unknown to me at the time, I felt a strong urge to continue. Fortunately, I was able to coax Lindsey along, primarily by finding a walking stick for her to use in the deep snow.
When we finally did make it to the top, the view was astounding - peaceful and vast and above all serene. I immediately thought to myself that I'd never find a better place to propose than there. However, being the bumbling type that I am, I didn't know if it was quite proper to propose without an actual ring ready. I awkwardly tried to get an answer from Lindsey using hypotheticals, but that didn't go well. So, I decided just to go for it and ask. Fortunately, she said yes.
The hike back down to the bottom of the mountain was remarkably more enjoyable, and for some reason, the snow did not seem as deep.